When we tell some one, hey, move on, don't keep pondering over it. It is very simple for the person who says this but very difficult to take and digest for the person at the other end.
As moving on, implies that we have to shun in the old, be it environment, any relationship etc; and move on to the whole new world, which, implies a change.
When a person faces this kind of situation he or she should really analyze whether such change is really needed or whether the person is ready to take up the challenge to face this change?
It is not necessary that change will be positive always. If it is a positive change, than there is no problem as every one of us are always, ready to accept good changes but the real test lies, when the change is not so good and the person is not ready to take up the challenge.
So in that case, what should a person do, what are the underlying assumptions when it comes to the next move?
Here are some suggestions, for those situations when a person is not ready for a change, but has to move on....
1. Stay calm, as this helps in taking the future decisions rationally.
2. Accept the change more positively and openly.
3. Always keep in mind that GOD has something good in, store for us and has a hidden meaning which we will not understand now but will come to know, that GOD has changed this for us, for a great future.
4. The pondering of rejecting and accepting the change totally lies with us. It is not an easy decision to take, there are no ready formulae to apply or no buttons to push, but one, that just had to be made.
5. It is important to differentiate, the need to move on from a false view, that the grass is greener somewhere else.
6. Face the change with the positive attitude, courage and with the strong conviction that change will definitely open the gates of fortune.
In the end, we should not forget that....
Life calls all of us for a change,at some point of time, whether we want it or not. We change with every breath. We grow and mature as we move on with the time.
The biggest challenge, is to move on with open heart, accept the challenges and opportunities, ahead with grateful appreciation for life
Welcome the change and start afresh, with vigor and enthusiasm, make the change in a most positive way, with intense aliveness to help you, on the life's journey ahead.
Sonali_Saripalli
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